How can i let my daughter comback to me?

I Separated from my husband before two years i have one girl i did not refuse any thing for her , her age 13 years old now , she began lying so much, and i forgive her so much but has not changed, I understand that I made and her father her unhappy childhood i tried to satisfied her but she increased more she behaves as a mother while treats with me as a child last month i explored many events from her school , and i asked her “i trusted hre in everything but she wasn’t honest with me “ i told her to try live with her father , but i did that just as punishment for her , and i expected that , she will apologize , but she surprised me and shocked me when stayed with him and she didnt try call me or ask about me in spite of her hostility toward her father , last week i called her friend , and i told her to call my daughter may she could make something , but her friend told me that “ my daughter refused comeback and she refused talk with me . i miss her too much please advice how can i repeat her ?